What is Femdom?

What is Femdom?

What is Femdom?

In short, femdom stands for female domination.  It occurs when the female takes charge of the relationship (this could be a lesbian or traditional relationship) and assumes the dominate roll.  Traditionally, this has fallen to the male in the relationship due basically to sexist teachings throughout the years.

However, femdom is seeing a rise in popularity as women are becoming more and more confident in themselves and discovering their opportunities to lead.  Normally, a man submits to a woman out of a sexual desire to be submissive.  This does not mean that the men in femdom relationships are losers or otherwise non-A personalities.  In fact, many men in this type of relationship are quite successful and typically masculine.  Sometimes, couples enter into a femdom relationship just simply to change things up.




What does a femdom relationship look like?  It can look like many things.  For example, it could be simply where the woman dictates how they will have sex.  It can include chastity on the man’s part (sometimes, even going as far as getting a penis cage and being locked for months), and it can include much more sexual aspects such as dominatrix elements and cuckolding.  Most of the time, it tends to be pretty mild and really just a matter of the female being more assertive of her needs-which is really the entire point of femdom, that of female fulfillment.

Femdom can also be non-sexual as well, as the male submits to occupying the role traditionally left to a female, and even becoming quite subservient in every day activities to the female.  For instance, a male could be tasked with doing the housework, cooking, massaging the female, putting make up on, etc.  In real life though, each femdom relationship is unique from couple to couple.

If you’re reading this, and femdom does sound interesting to you, it’s best for you to be honest with your partner about it.  It’s not for everyone, and it’s definitely not a good idea to pressure your partner into fulfilling a fantasy for you.  Rather, it’s best to be honest and experiment here and there with various aspects of it.  I’d suggest checking out our bondage products category for some ideas of toys to incorporate into your sexual relationship.





However, femdom ultimately is more of a mindset than any actual sexual activities.

 





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